5 Options for Rejecting Someone

Is there ever really an appropriate way to “turn someone down”? Let’s be honest. No one likes rejection….duh. The problem is some of us deal with it worse than others. A lot worse. My first encounter with rejecting a person was when I was a preteen walking down the street to the corner store probably […]

Almost 30 and Single AF

“Focus on your education,” they say. “Those boys will still be around after you’ve established yourself,” said every influential strong black woman in my life, ever. Well they were wrong. Period. Not saying that marrying my knuckle head high school ex would have been the right decision either, but there has to be a middle […]