Bourbon Talez: Finances and Sex

YouSeeLogic’s Bourbon Talez with Room for Relations What happens when your career success starts to affect your sex life? Check out Dr. Uchenna Ossai explaining how to handle the power struggle in your relationship and bedroom.

5 Tips to Enjoy National Masturbation Month

In honor of National Masturbation Month we decided to give you some tips on enjoying your next session. Learning what pleasures you and how to get there is just as fun as it sounds. Next time you are on a solo mission try these tips to make your trip to the Big O a memorable […]

Room 316: Love Yourself 1st

This week Eboni is joined by B, Keita and Rory to discuss sexual issues. During the Sexy Times how being single affects work, why millennials do not believe in settling, and the uber driver that drove a woman to her man’s house. There is also a round of Overrated/Underrated about being 100% Honest in a […]

5 Things You Should Know About Your Body and Sex

Therapists do not know everything. That is why we consult, refer and continue to take classes and receive training even after we have been seeing clients for a while. (CLICK HERE for other surprising facts about your therapist) Human beings are complex! Effective therapists must make sure they are well informed about all aspects of human […]

Bourbon Talez: Condom Irritation

Dr. Uchenna Ossai, a sex-positive pelvic health physical therapist, sex educator and counselor, explains why you may have irritation after having sex with  a condom. Check out ways to make safe sex more comfortable. Hey everyone. Welcome back to a special edition of You See Logic’s Bourbon Talez with Room for Relations. Here’s today’s question: […]

Seeking the Possibility: The Morning After

They’d begun to spend a lot of time with each other. They’d had several good dates. The chemistry was there. Sure, he was a bit mysterious and aloof at times, but she liked that. He wasn’t exactly her type, but he was nice and he treated her well. So when he offered to drive her home […]

Prioritize Your Pleasure: Plan a Sex Date

So you’ve reached a point in your relationship where you feel safe, content, secure, and BORED.  You regularly wonder what happened to the passion you and your partner once shared—the erotic desire that fueled your relationship with excitement.  You’re even wondering if you’ll ever experience that type of intensity with your partner ever again. It’s […]

What if He Doesn’t Want to Go Downtown: 3 Tips to Encourage Cunnilingus

When it comes to sex, most women think men are down for anything but that may not be the case. Men have just as many concerns and preferences as women. This means that, shockingly, all men are not the same. When it comes to oral sex, some men just don’t do it while others prefer not to. If you are in either of these situations, here are some tips to help open your man’s mind.

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The Sex Talk: You Like What!?

Talking about sex when dating someone new can be exciting and nerve wracking. Based on the responses I received when I asked listeners to my podcast to share stories about their 1st time having sex with a new partner, more often than not the sex was unremarkable at best. Although, there can never be a guarantee that the first time will be mind-blowing, there are ways to communicate about sex to give you and your new partner the best chance of being satisfied the first time in the sack. Read more about The Sex Talk: You Like What!?

Benefits of Non- Sexual Intimacy

Sexuality in our modern American society is as confusing now as it ever was. Where progressively, we have become more open and understanding about the diversity of sexual interests, sex tends to be either discussed as something taboo and dirty, or its importance is minimized, defeated by a hyper-sexual society that misses the value of human intimacy. In a fight to rebel against conservatism, men and women are happily adding sex to their program, sometimes too early. In contrast, due to a minimizing of the real benefits of sex, couples tend to fizzle out quickly in terms of sexual intimacy and adventure as soon as they feel stable with one another. Many relationships are failing because we aren’t having a balanced conversation on the evolution and importance of sexuality in a relationship over time. Read more about Benefits of Non- Sexual Intimacy